she's like your best friend, 
but with better advice.

Book a free consult with abby

Same girl. Same.

Curious what life coaching could do for you?

You've come to the right place. 

Because it's time...

To flip that script. 

Break that cycle.

Change that habit. 

Become EVERYTHING you're meant to be.


Hi.

I'm the problem.

It's me.

Do you feel like you have something in common with taylor swift?


[insert nervous laugh...]

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 I'll be happy when... 

I get that next promotion, I get married, when I have kids

I'm not enough....

 Pretty enough, smart enough, athletic enough

I'm too busy....

So I am not alone with my thoughts  & don't feel down

I am so overwhelmed...

I'm tired, burned out, and paralyzed by fear

I am stuck...

What do I want? I feel a lack of direction

We've ALL been there. But you don't need to  STAY there.
Change your "I AM" Statements.


 i am Coaching with Abby

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As comfortable as chatting with your best friend, but with the clarity of an expert.

Meet Abby. Your new BFF

Come with me,
& you'll learn to...

Kick those weak & false self definitions of yourself (weak i ams) to the curb!

You are more than fear & self doubt! 





Heal.

Surrender.

Surrendering the "edited" (fear based) version of youself for the REAL deal.

Well, hello Beautiful!!


Create.

Creating the life you've always wanted.

Stepping into YOUR true purpose with clarity! 





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Hi babe. I'm Abby

A Little Bit of my Story...

HELLO! 

Thanks for dropping by my little corner of the internet. 

I'm SO glad you are here.

You may be asking, what qualifies you to be coaching me on being more comfortable being myself? 

I've been there.

I struggled. From my teens and most of my 20's.

I had bought into the lie that I'm flawed and not enough.

And overwhelmed and paralyzed by the fear of that message.

Stuck in a seemingly endless cycle of perfectionism and shame. 

I was looking for ways to validate that I was enough.

Spoiler alert, external validation wasn't what I was truly craving.

So I kept coming up empty.

Can you relate?


More About Me

But I'm NOT there now.

In fact, I'm thriving.

And now looking back, I was afraid of becoming the person I was truly meant to be. 

Now, I'm on a mission to help girls lean into themselves & God. 

Because when girls own who they REALLY are...
BIG THINGS HAPPEN!




"I felt so comfortable being honest and vulnerable with her."

"Abby's super power as a coach is a complete lack of judgement on my thoughts. I felt so comfortable being really honest and vulnerable with her. And yet she has the ability to see through the weeds of my thoughts and gently (sometimes boldly!) helps me to see more clearly. I especially love her follow up emails with additional resources. Her coaching has been a great asset for my mindset."
-Emily M.

"Abby is friendly & Approachable and makes  each session feel like a hang out with a friend."

I can't say enough good things about Abby's life coaching lessons. Her sessions helped me to comb through the situations in life that seem messy and untouchable at the moment. Abby is friendly and approachable and makes each session feel like a hang out with a friend, but I don't have to worry about her coddling my feelings in an unhelpful way. Abby knows just the right questions to ask to help me discover the feelings and thoughts that I didn't even know I had which really helped trace things to their roots. I met the version of myself that seems new but it has always been there, just hadn't been discovered.
-Mofan S.

"She has a knack for people feeling comfortable sharing their personal life circumstances and confiding in her."

Some counselors are made, other counselors are trained. Fortunately, a few are both. Abby Harris, naturally gifted in her field and well schooled and certified professionally, remarkably combines the two and thus is a coach “per excellence.” She is a personality-plus person, so association with her is a delight. She has a knack for people sharing their personal life circumstances and confiding in her. She is articulate and expresses herself nicely so conversing with her is enjoyable. Her memory is sharp as she recalls facts in detail and prior discussions verbatim so I feel she is listening and cares about me and the time with her is profitably spent.
-Daryl H.

"She is an exceptional listener, and I never felt judged during our conversations."

Abby is an incredible life coach. Every session felt like chatting with a soul sister. She is an exceptional listener, and I never felt judged during our conversations, which allowed me to be completely honest with myself and explore areas that needed improvement.
-Shalise W.

"I'm truly grateful for her coaching. It's so nice to have someone in my corner I can trust."

Abby has helped me shift my mindset and provides practical tools for daily improvement that have made a significant impact on my life. I'm truly grateful for her coaching. It's so nice to have someone in my corner that I trust.
-Aliza W.

"Her coaching has not only improved by relationship with myslf, but also my realtionship with others."

Working with Abby has given me the confidence to embrace who I am authentically and to navigate life's challenges with resilience. Her coaching has not only improved my relationship with myself but also my relationship with others.
-Katie V.

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